How To Be Better and Not Bitter

If you’re reading this right now, I would gather that you either want to know how to be better and not bitter, or you want to help someone else in this case. Whatever your position, I’m glad you’re here. Because we need to have the conversation about it. And the reason being is so that healing can begin to take place. So…are you ready?


Usually, bitterness doesn’t just happen. It’s a bit of a process. It’s slow, sneaky, and it can be vicious if not checked. It often stems from some form of hurt, offense, injustice, or disagreement. And again, if these described emotions are not dealt with, then a root of bitterness will begin to grow. It’s inevitable.

But you have a choice. You can choose to be better and not bitter. I need to say that choosing to be or stay bitter is sinful.

It’s true. And it’s not God’s way. But I think you know that already, and that’s why you’re here. Because you DON’T want to be bitter or you don’t want others you know to be in this place either.

So here’s how healing takes place. I’ll start with the biblical ways first and then I’ll share some practical tips on how to overcome and defeat this life-sucking, hindering spirit. Here goes..

Biblical Perspective:

Ephesians 4:31-32, “Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of malicious behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ Jesus has forgiven you.”

Proverbs 20:22, “Don’t say, ‘I will get even for this wrong.’ Wait for the Lord to handle the matter.”

Proverbs 10:12, “Hatred stirs up quarrels, but love makes up for all offenses.”

Hebrews 12:15, “…Watch out that no poisonous root of bitterness grows up to trouble you, corrupting many.”

Romans 12:17-18, “Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.”

Romans 12:19-20, “Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For Scriptures say, ‘I will take revenge; I will pay them back, says the Lord. Instead, ‘If you enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink. In doing so, you will heap burning coals of shame on their heads.”

Romans 12:21, “Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.”

Let God’s word have weight in your life and get rid of bitterness, my sister. It’s really all about letting God work on your behalf, while also taking the action steps to responding well as a Christian woman.

Trust me. The devil would LOVE for you to treat those who have hurt you angrily and against what God’s word says. But don’t give him the satisfaction.

Now here’s some practical advice that I promised..

Watch out for self-deception. Because sometimes there can be an undercurrent of bitterness whereas you think you’re not bitter, but you actually are. The acid test to see if bitterness is creeping into your heart is dependent upon how you feel when the individual comes to mind or name is mentioned. What emotions arise? Is it anger and resentment or love and forgiveness?

Personally, I know the feeling of being bitter. I know the onslaught when the enemy brings it on and I know when it’s creeping into my heart. I can sense it. I can tell by how I feel. And the Holy Spirit convicts me when it’s present. But…I wasn’t always able to recognize it.

Before I started living the Christian life according to God’s word and with conviction, I allowed bitterness to run rampant in my life. Meaning, if I was upset with someone, that individual would know it to the fullest extent! Yet, it wasn’t until I learned through good teaching and the word of God that bitterness is destructive and a hindrance to my spiritual growth and productivity. And it’s sin. So guess what? I had to let it go!

And I want to teach you to do the same thing. Let it go! Don’t let it rob you of your joy, productivity, or love. Don’t let it steal your peace. Don’t allow it to cause you to be mean, angry, or slanderous and destroy good relationships. Don’t forget, our great enemy Satan comes to steal, kill, and to destroy, but Jesus came that you would have life more abundantly.

So LIVE. Live the abundant life in Christ, my sister. Don’t let the enemy rob you of your right to forgive, love people deeper, and dwell in peace as much as possible with others as the Bible states. Instead, choose to be the bigger person, let go, and MOVE ON. Because guess what? Most likely, while you’re still angry, that individual or individuals have moved on.

With that being said, instead of waking up thinking about the offense or the person who hurt you, set your thoughts on things that are pure and lovely, and on things above, not on things on the earth as Philippians 4:8 and Colossians 3:2 states. Think about how you will be wanted to answer by Jesus.


I want to say this before I close this post. If you’re bitter right now, or if you feel it creeping up inside of you, I urge you to carve it out of your heart today. Circumcise it with God’s word and get free.

Also, if you haven’t made things right with the individual who hurt you, do so. And if you have done so already, remember…let it go and move on.

It’s time to be free. Make the choice to be better, not bitter today. Do it for you and for others.

Remember, Jesus is coming back soon. And those who endure unto the end, shall be saved. Let’s be ready from the Inside Out.

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Check Out These 5 Habits You Can Find In Charismatic People

Being likable is not rocket science, but a number of people a firm in their belief that they don’t care about being liked. However, when push comes to shove knowing your way around relating with people and being able to win them over is an important skill that you will find very essential in moving up the ladder of success.


Here are 5 habits of charismatic people...

1). They Listen More Than They Speak
When charismatic people relate with others, they make them feel heard. Many people like to talk with and relate with them because of how actively they seem to listen and give useful feedback; and the fact is that people tend to like and remember good listeners positively.

2). They’re Genuine People
Or at least they are very good at seeming genuine and this is what draws people to them. People typically like those they perceive to be genuine and humble, and charismatic people have that going for them. They are perceived to be genuine and most of them actually are. A charismatic person’s genuineness coupled with a kind personality will gagner instant like from others.

3). They Stand Up Tall
Charismatic people have a certain ‘swag’. They stand up tall and have an appealing mien. Their gait and mannerisms are smart, and there something inherently attractive about their carriage that draws people to them. They of course have a good posture, whether sitting, standing or walking, and that makes them appear more secure and confident. This is another characteristic that people admire in them, which makes them likeable.

4). They Build Confidence in Others
When people spend time around a charismatic person, they feel better about themselves, or they at least come away feeling inspired or motivated in some sort of way. This makes charismatic people likeable and makes many people want to be around them. The fact is charismatic people tend to build confidence in others by giving credits and complements where they are due to make others feel important, and also by constructively critiquing those whose actions need to be reformed. When dealing with others, charismatic people mainly focus on the importance of this saying, “It’s not what you say, but how you say it?”

5). Remember Names
Charismatic people go to far lengths to either know the name or find a system of remembering the name of others around them. Like Dale Carnegie said, ‘a person’s name is to him or her the sweetest and most important sound in any language’, and charismatic people understand this fact very well. It’s why they are sure to put effort into finding a way to remember the names of those around them. In the event, they actually forget the name of a person they are very polite about how they go about asking for it again and will hardly forget it a second time.

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[Music] Mac P Ft. Baba Vino – Leave Ikebe

Web Gang Artist “Mac P” whose real name is Oghenekome Prosper Oghenekaro AKA Delta 1st Son is a Rapper,singer and song writer.

A graduate of UNIBEN and has since been making waves with his music down here in the south. Deltas 1st Son came through with a new dance-hall tune dubbed "Leave Ikebe" featuring Baba Vino. It is an advice to the guys out there... strive on being successful and ignore distractions... Pursue money Leave IKEBE

“Leave Ikebe” is sure to take over the airwaves and club houses in a matter of weeks,.

Connect With Mac P
Facebook: – @Webgang Mac P
Twitter: – @Webgang_MacP
Instagram: – @OfficiallyMacP


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Photos From The Northern Traditional Rulers to Iftar Hosted By Nigeria Acting President, Yemi Osinbajo

Acting President Yemi Osinbajo, SAN, host Northern Traditional Rulers to Iftar at the Presidential Villa in Abuja yesterday Monday 19th June 2017.


Acting President with His Eminence Sultan of Sokoto, Sultan Muhammadu Sa'ad Abubakar III; Emir of Kano, Emir Muhammadu Sanusi II; Lamido of Adamawa, Muhammadu Barkindo.Photos by Novo Isioro. See more photos below..

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2017/2018 NECO Commerce Answer

OBJ

1-10:  BDBDBDCBCB
11-20: AACBABDDAD
21-30: DCBABBCEEC
31-40: CADBBDCADA
41-50: CBDCBCEBBC
51-60: ACCEBDABAB


1i)
credit sales-is a Purchases made by a consumer that do not require a payment made in full at the time of purchase.

1ii)
hire purchase- is a system by which a buyer pays for a thing in regular installments while enjoying the use of it.

1iii)
-Loan refers to long term debt given by the bank to the borrower
-overdraft refers to short term facility given by the bank to the account holder to withdraw money from his or her account up to certain limit fixed by the bank.

1iv)
mortgage- is legal agreement that conveys the conditional right of ownership on an asset or property by its owner (the mortgagor) to a lender(the mortgagee) as security for a loan.

1v)
Rental-is an item that is leased out for a specific amount of time and is governed by either a verbal or written agreement.


2a)
Usury law are regulations governing the amount of interest that can be charged on a loan.

2bi)
Identify a Public Concern- correctly identify an issue that concerns the public. For example, credit card fraud affects both businesses and credit card holders. The objective is reducing the extent of credit card fraud by teaching consumers how to protect themselves.

2bii)
Identify an Audience- they can reach the audience through mail from the credit card company, credit card websites or at points of sale in stores.

2biii)
Knowledge Transfer- their aim is to present knowledge to the general public or to the specific group affected by the issue.

2biv)
Teach the Consumer Role- teaching the public about consumers’ and businesses’ roles in society. Consumers can then appreciate their roles in supply and demand.

2bv)
Skills Training- to implement consumer knowledge. For example, after learning about a particular issue, the public should be able to write an effective letter of complaint, referencing the appropriate consumer laws and authorities.

2ci)
Standards library- The Organisation shall assemble, maintain and extend a collection of books and publications and such other matter as it considers appropriate for a standards library of the highest standing.

2cii)
Power to charge for services- For all comparisons, tests or investigations performed by the Organisation under this Act, except those performed for the Government of the Federation or a State, or such other public bodies or institutions as may be approved by the Council.

2ciii)
Qualification and experience of Director-General- Any person who may be appointed as the Director-General shall have such qualifications and experience as are appropriate for a person required to perform the functions conferred on the Director-General by or under this Act.


3)
i)opportunity cost
ii)public transportation
iii)Environmentally Responsible
iv)traffic congestion
v)transit and commuter service

3i)
opportunity cost- In the case of cars, we
often sacrifice time, money for auto-
related expenses, and safety in order to
have the convenience and privacy to customers driving to and from work.

3ii)
public transportation- It helps the customers transport service which is available for use by the general public, as distinct from modes such as taxicab, carpooling, hired buses, and transportation network companies.

3iii)
Environmentally Responsible- to have a positive influence on the environment by inviting customers to utilize shared or public transportation or walk or bike to work– and for this reason ease traffic jam and decrease vehicle-based emissions.

3iv)
traffic congestion- to reducing the use of customer single-occupancy vehicles in the City, while increasing the use of transit and alternative modes of transportation.”

3v)
transit and commuter service- they offer the Customers idea on how they can create neighborhoods that rely less on single-occupancy vehicle use and more on transit, biking and walking. In the Seattle area, another transit incentive program is taking place.


8)
i)Sampling
ii)Free Trial
iii)Free Gifts
iv)Contests
v)Special Pricing

8i)
Sampling- Providing free samples is a technique used to introduce new products to the marketplace. Samples give the consumer a chance to see how well they like a product or try something they otherwise would not normally buy

8ii)
Free Trial-
a free trial is a way for a consumer to try a new product while eliminating risk. It may be used when a product is unique to the marketplace, which can make consumers leery of trying it out.

8iii)
Free Gifts-
Free gifts entice consumers to make a purchase by including a bonus along with the product. The gift may be included in the outer part of the product packaging to serve as a visual attraction.

8iv)
Contests-
Contests offer the customer a chance to win prizes like cash or store merchandise. For example, an electronics retailer could hold a karaoke contest at its store, while using local celebrities as judges.

8v)
Special Pricing-
Special pricing is used to offer consumers a lower price for a period of time or to purchase in multiple quantities.


9i)
Allonge- is a slip of paper affixed to a negotiable instrument, as a bill of exchange, for the purpose of receiving additional endorsements for which there may not be sufficient space on the bill itself.

9ii)
Dishonoured Bill- Is a cheque or similar financial instrument whose payment has been refused.

9iii)
Endorsement- Is a acceptance or time draft, that assures the counter party that the bank will stand behind the obligations of the creator of the instrument.

9iv)
Noting- is a negotiable promissory note issued by a bank and payable to the bearer on demand.

9v)
Protest- Is When a bank receives instructions from another bank not to protest items in the event that a negotiable instrument is not paid or accepted.




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2017/2018 NECO Agricultural Science Answer

2ai)
i)It depletes soil nutrients
ii)It destroys crops

2aii)
i)It makes it difficult for farmers to transport there goods to the market
ii)It makes it difficult for extension workers to access the rural farmers and educate them.

2b)
i)Non members of the community cannot have access to the land for farming
ii)It cannot be used as security to obtain loan in bank
iii)Increase in population tends to reduce the size of farmland shared to each member

2c)
Shifting cultivation is an agricultural system in which plots of land are cultivated temporarily, then abandoned and allowed to revert to their natural vegetation while the cultivator moves on to another plot. While Bush fallowing is a system of farming whereby the farmer cultivates one piece of land for some years and later leave it for some years with the aim of restoring the fertility of the soil naturally.

2d)
iWatering can
ii)Harvesting knife
iii)Sickle
iv)hand trowel

2e)
Area=length x breadth
Area = 200 x 400
Area = 80000m2T


SECTION B
3a)
i)Use of organic matter
ii)Planting of cover crops
iii)Mixed cropping
iv)Land use planning

3bi)
Monocropping is an agricultural practice in which the same crop is planted year after year, without practicing crop rotation or resting the soil while monoculture is the agricultural practice of producing or growing a single crop, plant, or livestock species, variety, or breed in a field or farming system at a time.

3bii)
mixed farming is the process of growing cops and feeding livestock while Mixed cropping is growing of two or more crops simultaneously on the same piece of land.

3c)
i)Expansive land leveling is not required.
ii)Water saving irrigation intensity can be changed in accordance with the infiltration capacity of soil.
iii)High efficiency due to uniform water distribution.
iv)No special skills trained personal can operate the system reasonably well.

3di)
i)NPK compound fertilizer
ii)NPK Mg compound fertilizer fertilizer
3dii)
i)NPK Mg compound fertilizer
ii)NPK compound fertilizer


SECTION C
5a)
Crop rotation is The successive planting of different crops on the same land to maintain soil fertility and help control insects and diseases.

5b)
i)It serves as food for man
ii)Some weeds are used for medicinal purposes
iii)Weeds Add Organic Matter and Nutrients to the Soil:
iv)Weeds helps to control Wind, Water and Soil Erosion.

5c)
i)Overgrazing
ii)Climatic and weather conditions
iii)Soil texture and structure

5d)
i)They are used for decorations
ii)Some of them serves as food for man and animals
iii)They are used as scent plants for their fragrance

5e)
pre-planting activities are farm activities carried out before rubber plantation e.g land clearing while post planting activities are activities carried out after planting e.g siping


SECTION D
8a)
i)Presence of pathogens on the farm
ii)poor management and hygiene conditions of the animals
iii)Overstocking of animals

8b)
Diet is the sum of food consumed by an animal while ration is the daily feed portion prepared from various feeds according to various animals’ requirements.

8c)
i)Soil nature
ii)Accessibility
iii)Availability of water supply
iv)Climatic and weather conditions

8d)
i)It causes diseases to farm animals
ii)It reduces farmers income
iii)It reduces the quality of farm animals and eventually leads to death

8ei)
Bacteria

8eii)
sudden onset of fever and difficulty in breathing.

8eiii)
Feeding on contaminated feed

8eiv)
Through the identification of infested areas and use of insecticide


SECTION E
9ai)
Supply in agricultural economics refers to the quantity of a good that the producer plans to sell in the market.

9aii)
i)Climatic conditions.
ii)Improvements in technology.
iii)The rate of supply of a related good
iv)Costs of production I.e cost of rearing cow
v)The number of producer I.e cow rearers.

9b)
i)to maintain affordability of goods
ii)To prevent inflation
iii)To ensure a minimum income for providers of certain goods or a minimum wage.

9ci)
-Advantage-
i)time savings compared with individual extension
ii)It is cheaper.

-Disadvantage-
i)It is not for communicating complex subject matters
ii)It is not easy to gather the target group and requires more skills.

9cii)
i)Extension and rural women
ii)Extension and rural youth



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Popular Ghanaian Actress, Nadia Buhari Finally Revealed Her Baby Daddy (See Photo)

The beautiful actress Nadia Buari suddenly went off the radar when she became pregnant.

She stay off movies and stayed away from Nigeria where she was getting movies roles left,right and centre.

Since she had her twin daughters,the actress has been shielding their faces and the face and identity of her baby daddy.

Looks like she revealed him yesterday....

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Sport: Steven Gerrard Says Liverpool Can Challenge For Title With 'Two or Three' Signings

Steven Gerrard has told BT Sport that Liverpool only require "two or three" signings this summer in order to mount a serious Premier League title challenge next season.


Liverpool will secure a spot in the 2017-18 Champions League should they overcome a two-legged playoff in August following their fourth-placed finish in the league last season.

And former Liverpool captain Gerrard, who will take charge of the club's under-18 side next term, is confident Jurgen Klopp's team will challenge for silverware if they can make a few statements in the transfer market.

"I think we've got a fantastic manager at the helm, who will hopefully attract a few big names to complete the jigsaw," he said. "I think Liverpool are very, very close and if you look at the statistics of the top six from last season, they were the best team in terms of head-to-head.

"So Liverpool know where they need to improve and it's consistency against the teams in the bottom half of the table -- the teams that sit narrow, compact and are difficult to break down.

"Hopefully we can get the two or three big pieces of the jigsaw that are missing and I'm really confident that Liverpool can keep moving forward and there will be success just around the corner."

Liverpool's struggles under Klopp have come against opponents who tend to sit deep and restrict their attacking style.

Gerrard says Liverpool need to recruit another forward to help the team overcome that problem, along with a new left-back to provide competition for James Milner.

Liverpool remain interested in Roma winger Mohamed Salah, while the club continue to pursue other left-back targets after moving on from Fulham youngster Ryan Sessegnon.

"I think we need someone in the left-back position. James has done a fantastic job out there, but it would be nice to have another option out there as well," Gerrard added.

"And maybe one more attacking player to give some more firepower and help unlock the defences that are really narrow and compact. I don't think we need major reconstruction, I think it's just a couple of pieces of the jigsaw left and I'm really happy with where we are at the moment."

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See Some Things Most Women Do That May Lead To Marriage Destruction

Some men are difficult, but women as home builders must understand that marriage is a decent and sacred institution that must be treated with utmost respect and guided with all sense of decency.


Below are things some married women do that could destroy their marriage:

1). Poor communication
In every relationship we find ourselves, communication is vital. No one is a mind reader and no matter what it may be that could be a reason for your unhappiness, speak out immediately in a stern manner and not lackadaisically.

Some wives are found of calling relatives to complain about certain issues meanwhile the hubby at home does not have an idea of how hurting they are concerning that issue.

2). Sharing their marital issue with a male admirer/friend.
Not every guy you know is responsible. We have some low lives that has no regard for any form of decency and it is no news that many guys are in this category.

When you discuss your marital issues with an admirer or a male friend, what these guys hear is "I'm vulnerable, I need you as a succor". This is why most times,when a married woman take solace in a male friend, the end result is usually an illicit affair. The male friend takes an advantage.

3). Being careless with male friends.
I think there should not be anything like just friends between a married woman and another man. If he is not your childhood friend, co-worker, business partner then you have no business with him.

Many married ladies have a careless habit of keeping male friends indiscriminately and worst still get so careless allowing these guys call them by their maiden names.

I will never call a married lady by her maiden name because just as the name suggests, its her unmarried name but will rather put Mrs, sis, madam.

When a married lady is called by her maiden name, it diminishes as well as tarnishes her respect, image and matrimony giving room for a potential unethical relationship between her and the "just male friends".

4). Seeking vengeance.
Many married lady tend to take some actions in order to prove to their hubby that a sauce for the goose is also ok for the gander but unfortunately this will destroy your marriage more.

When you take a revenge on your hubby, of what use will that be to you?

5). Talking down on your hubby.
This is one mistake many ladies do. You and your hubby are one and talking down on him means talking down on yourself. It is one thing to voice out what he did and another to use outright abusive words on him.

In situations where a couple separates, some ladies will not mind talking down on their hubby with a friend, their family and even with male admirers and i keep wondering if the woman thinks this will earn her any form of respect.

If you call your hubby a sick man then what does that make you? Or you call your hubby an asshole then it takes an asshole to tango with such a man.

No matter how angry you may be, don't ever rule out reconciliation and even if you are never going to reconcile ,respect your matrimony with him.

6). Believing there is always a better man out there.
This is one believe this is so wrong. Ladies believe they will get a better replacement. There are more than enough never married ladies out there for the unmarried guys, so why is a sane single guy leaving all the good single ladies to come after you? He is running from something.

Many women divorcees realize this too late as they end up as a toy in the hands of randy men, as second wife, or end up single for a long time as many men will believe they are doing them a big favour by just sleeping with them and give them money.

7). Sharing their marital issues with single female friends.
Like seriously! it may surprise you to know that most of your friends who are still single are not happy that you are married so take your marital problem to them at your own risk.

8). Not looking decent.
Laziness is a problem. Men get carried away by what they see so do yourself a favour, get that big tummy down and get into decent outfits that would make your man desire you more.

9). Never sorry
Some wives are egocentric to the extent that when they do or say things that are wrong, they will never or hardly apologize but rather would want to buttress the rationale behind their actions and most men see this as an appalling nature. Don't find it difficult to apologize to your husband.

10). Not ready to try enough in the kitchen and the bedroom
If you are a married lady reading this, please don't joke with your kitchen and the other room. Take care of your husband well in these two places and he's all yours. Make your marriage the best by making necessary adjustment and see things get better naturally.

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See Photo of Popular Musician, Dbanj as He Poses With His Little Son, Daniel

Musician Dbanj is a proud Father.....His wife Lineo Didi Kilgrow shared this beautiful photo on 'gram....

The father looks different and so relaxed!

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Check Out Photos of This 3 Beautiful Generations

These are photos of former Beauty queen Adaeze Yobo and her mum who looks effortlessly beautiful and the little beauty who is the third generation.....

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[MUSIC] Efe - Somebody

#BBNaija Winner, Efe – Somebody. Efe Michel Ejeba, popular known professionally as EFE, shares a new banger christened “Somebody”.The mid-tempo banger was produced by his long time friend producer, Duktor Sett.


The track comes as an appetizer as we await the official music to his cliché track “Based on Logistics #BOL” which was premiered a while back.To keep his fans pumped, the 1K1M ambassador took to twitter saying “#EfeNation while we await the release of #BOL video…shld i drop a new jam..coz i feel lyk giving u guys a song to dance to”.

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Check Out These 9 Prayers Husband's Should Pray Over Their Wife's

Husbands, this is a call to action!

Prayer has immeasurable capabilities to transform the reality around us. Prayer moves the hand of God. Through our prayers He moves, transforms, and heals us.


I love this quote: “Without Him we can’t, and without us He won’t.” Meaning, we are the hands and feet of the Lord. He is our strength and power, but He demands our participation.

We are called to be the hands and feet, and this starts in prayer.

Here are 9 prayers you can pray over your wife.

1). Her Friendships
Dear Lord, thank you for the friendship I have with my wife. I ask that it deepens in closeness and oneness as the years pass. I pray that I grow in knowledge so I may love her better. Lord, I ask that my wife (Audrey) has girlfriends that are encouraging, uplifting and followers of Jesus. I want her to feel safe and secure when she hangs out with them. I pray that they are a source of joy in her life, filling her up with laughter and positive memories to treasure forever. I Pray that she has older women friends that lead her in wisdom, faith, and maturity. Jesus, I ask that you continue to nurture Audrey’s new friendships, and bring more depth to the old friendships. May she lead by example in her friendships. In Jesus name, amen.

2). Peace
Jesus, you are the prince of peace! Thank you for sending us the Holy Spirit. Holy Spirit I pray that you grant Audrey with a peace beyond all understanding. That she feels safe and calm in circumstances where it doesn’t make sense. Holy Spirit give Audrey the ability to see through her struggles and set her sights and mind on you. I pray that she reacts first with prayer, and that she casts all her worries, fears, and doubts at the foot of your cross. May Audrey be marked by her peace. 1 Peter 5:7. Holy Spirit fill Audrey up with your presence. I pray that Audrey always pursues peace and that she will be known as a peacemaker. Let peace rule in her heart. Colossians 3:15. Jesus I pray that Audrey adopts (and continues to adopt) a heart of thankfulness, and through her thankfulness rests in peace because of your provision. In Jesus name, Amen.

3). Confidence
Dear Lord, I pray for Audrey’s confidence. That it is unshaken by the critics of this world. I pray that she finds her value, beauty and worth in you alone. Give her a confidence in her Identity that cannot be overlooked by others. I pray that in her confidence Audrey is a beacon for the broken and hurt that they might see you and your glory through her. Help me to also build up her confidence with words and actions. I pray that Audrey seeks to be nobody but herself, that she can live into the fullest version of herself according to your scriptures, your plan for her life, and design for our family. I pray that she’ll be filled with joy knowing that she has confidence in herself, and who she is becoming. Jesus thank you for a wife that seeks after you, I pray that together we can grow in our confidence of you, and be unshaken as we grow into our truest identities which are rooted in you. In Jesus name, amen.

4). Safety/Protection
Jesus, you are worthy to be praised! I pray for Audrey and her safety. Keep her healthy and safe as she lives out each day. I pray for protection over her mind as she reads things on the internet, and encounters false teachings. Holy Spirit, protect her mind and keep her nudged in the correct direction towards truth. Jesus, I pray the full armor and shield of protection over Audrey. I pray that she is blessed with good health and a body that functions to its fullest potential. I pray that I am able to provide for and protect her so that she feels well cared for, safe, treasured, and protected. Jesus, I pray for wisdom and leadership as I have been tasked with washing her with the Word (Ephesians 5:26) that you grant me a pure heart, and wisdom. Jesus, protect my wife from all spiritual attacks. Protect her against the efforts of the evil one and his affiliates. You called us to walk as children of the light (1 Thessalonians 5:5) and I pray that you protect the mind, heart, body and soul of Audrey as she strives to do just that. In Jesus name, Amen.

5). Motherhood
Lord thank you for who Audrey is. Thank you for making her exactly who she is, and who she will be. Your work is so beautiful, thank you for entrusting me with the protection of Audrey. I pray for her body, mind, and spirit when she enters motherhood. I pray that the transition into motherhood is a seamless and healthy adventure. Give Audrey extra strength, endurance, and patience through that time. I know she will be an amazing mother, and I ask that she be filled with value, beauty, and worth. Protect her emotions during that time and help me even further lose all selfishness so I can serve her and our family to the best of my abilities. In Jesus name, amen.

6). Fear
Lord, I pray that nothing will ever cause Audrey to be fearful or terrified. I pray that she will never lose control of her emotions and fall into fear out of anxiety or stress. I pray that Audrey always remains strong in her faith and that it will stand as a hedge against any unnecessary fears. Giver her a mind of discernment that cuts through all the noise so she won’t be dismantled or misguided from lack of direction. I pray that in all situations Audrey will act out of inspiration from the Holy Spirit and not of her flesh. Jesus, I pray that I can provide to the best of my abilities a safe environment for her, help me become the man I am supposed to be in order to do this. In Jesus name, amen.

7). Truth
Lord, you are truth. We believe in you and your Word. I pray that Audrey’s foundation in never shaken. That she stands strong in her faith all her life and grows into a shining light for your kingdom and purposes. Lord, I pray that the reality of your existence is always tangible and made clear to Audrey. I pray that truth is discerned and made known to her. I pray that through wisdom and discernment she can successfully relay the reality of truth to friends, family and the world who do not know you, in a way that is receivable. Give her the ability to point people to you, for the sake of truth Lord. I pray for the hearts of people lost in life that their souls are convicted so that that may come to know you and that Audrey can be a vehicle for your works. May Audrey be a kingdom warrior for your reality, and the promised kingdom to come. In Jesus name, amen.

8). Love
Dear heavenly father, I pray for the heart of Audrey that she will always feel loved by me. Help me understand her more and on deeper levels as the days go by so I can love her the way she needs and wants to be loved. Help me become a man that loves her like Christ loved the church. Jesus, I pray that Audrey always feels loved by you. That she never forgets what you did for her. I pray that the reality that you are coming back is enough to motivate her to pursue a relationship with you and fall deeply in love with you. Lord, I pray that love abounds in her so she can permeate love and freely give it away because she is constantly filled up with it. In Jesus name, amen.

9). Wisdom
Dear Lord, grant Audrey wisdom. I pray that she is daily filled with understanding and wisdom. I pray that as she grows in her apprenticeship of you Jesus that she will understand the things of the spirit and continually grow into a Godly woman. I pray that she continually asks for wisdom and understanding, for you say that you will grant it to those that ask (James 1:5). Lord, I pray that Audrey has discernment with the wisdom you entrust her with, that she uses it wisely and effectively. I pray that Audrey always has older women around her that will mentor her, build her up and speak wisdom into her. I pray that as Audrey spends time in the word that you speak to her and in her. I pray that she is always more concerned with the work that you are doing in her than through her so that she can one day be an example to new believers. Lord thank you for the mind of my wife and her passion to know you. In Jesus name, Amen

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Ogun State Police Arrested Two Men For Allegedly Stealing Equipments Owned By Etisalat (See Photos)

Two men have been arrested by the police in Ogun for allegedly stealing equipment belonging to troubled telecoms operator, Etisalat.

The thieves allegedly broke into the Isara-Remo site of the communications outfit carting away eight heavy duty batteries valued at N1.2 million, the police said.

The Ogun State Police Command Public Relations Officer, Abimbola Oyeyemi, who confirmed the incident on Sunday said the suspects were arrested on Saturday following a tip off.

Mr. Oyeyemi explained that the two suspects, Bashiru Jelili and Madu Nwete, were arrested following a tip off about their activities and their hideout.

‘They have earlier broke into the site of the communication giant where the heavy-duty batteries were stolen and sold to one Obinna who is now at large,” he said.

He said investigation revealed that the said Obinna is known for receiving stolen properties in the area.

Mr. Oyeyemi said the arrested suspects have made confessional statements and all the stolen batteries has been recovered.

He said efforts are on to apprehend the fleeing Obinna, adding that the Commissioner of Police, Ahmed Iliyasu, has directed that the suspects be charged to court as soon as investigation is concluded.

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5 Amazing Importance In Traveling With Your BFF

Travelling with your BFF(s) is a different experience, one you are very likely going to enjoy.


Here are some 5 things you will understand and enjoy if you ever travelled with your BFF(s).

1). You’ll Have More Memories and Amazing Stories to Tell
Everyone else might roll their eyes at it, but the fact is when you travel with your BFF(s), you tend to do more, explore more and engage in more adventures together.

2). You will have a lot of pictures to take, a lot of memories and so many stories of your exploits to tell.
There Will Be Many Inside Jokes
Oh, so many inside jokes indeed. You guys will share experiences and form opinions about those experiences. Those opinions many times will transform into witty comments that will become inside jokes for you and your BFF(s). It makes it all the more fun.

3). Your Instagram Game Will Be So Good
No more living off #ThrowbackThursdays or #FlashBackFridays, you’ll have new fresh pictures and a popping selfie game with your BFF(s) that will totally give life to your Instagram page, while attracting some likes and comments at the same time.

4). There will Be Some Passive Aggressive Moments
Yea you guys are BFFs and you love each other and all, but you guys are human beings too and if the vacation is long enough, you’ll have differences with each other. By differences, you’ll probably want to tear each other apart occasionally; but you won’t because of love. You’ll probably end up laughing about it in the end, which can end up making the whole trip even more interesting.

5). You’ll Start Merging into The Same Person at Some Point
Travelling together, sharing accommodation together, living together, going out together (for sight-seeing and all), you guys will virtually end up doing almost everything together and eventually you guys will just sync. You’ll get to know each other more, see different sides to each other, learn to tolerate each other more and have fun together. You’ll get to know your BFF(s) even more than you thought you could and will just get more comfortable around each other. It’s great for helping to strengthen the bond between you guys.

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